Lastly, I hope my stories make you chuckle and feel a little better about yourself.
However, the consequences of such isolation can be like a double-edged sword, desirable or detrimental.
Bacon points to philosophers like Epimenides the Candian, Numa the Roman, Empedocles the Sicilian, and Apollonius of Tyana, who postulated theories unique to their age and contemporaries. Even several spiritual men find great benefit and progress through prolonged abstention from public life.
Usually, we prefer to talk about our interesting things, love life, movies, music and so on.
Furthermore, we make a lot of joke to each other, we do not need to think too much about words using.
Hell, one might even go as far as to say I was a “popular” girl.
But when I hit my late 20s, got married, and started having kids, the business of making friends morphed into an exhausting process that often times left me feeling pissed off, empty and alone.
On the other hand, most friends cannot accept us when we make a mistake. A good example was two years ago, I read a news, which reported a man was caught by the police because of the graft and corruption.
Especially, when we betray or do bad things for our friends. His friends was so surprised and disappointed in his action.
One of the most surprising things about adulthood that I’ve learned in the last decade is that cultivating meaningful, adult friendships is hard as shit.
As a kid, a teenager, and even as a young adult, I had no problem building and maintaining friendships.